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How to Recognize Respiratory Distress in Children

Young boy catches his breath outside

By Frank Chocano, MD, Pulmonology at CHKD

One of the most common questions parents ask pediatricians is how to tell if their child is having trouble breathing.

Children’s breathing can change quickly during illness. While many respiratory infections are mild, respiratory distress is a medical condition that requires prompt attention. Recognizing early warning signs can help you act quickly and seek care when it matters most.

What Is Respiratory Distress?

Respiratory distress occurs when a child is:

  • Working harder than normal to breathe, or
  • Not getting enough oxygen

Common causes include:

  • Viral infections (cold, flu, RSV)
  • Pneumonia
  • Asthma
  • Allergic reactions
  • Other underlying medical conditions

Children often compensate well initially, so early signs can be subtle but important.

Common Signs of Respiratory Distress

Watch for changes in how your child looks, sounds, or behaves while breathing.

1. Fast or Labored Breathing

  • Breathing faster than usual, even at rest
  • Short, shallow breaths
  • Irregular breathing or unusual pauses

2. Increased Work of Breathing

  • Chest retractions: 
    • Skin pulling in between ribs
    • Under the ribs
    • Above the collarbone or at the neck
  • Nasal flaring (nostrils widen with each breath)
  • Use of extra muscles (belly or neck muscles visibly working)

3. Noisy Breathing

  • Wheezing (whistling sound, usually when breathing out)
  • Grunting with each breath
  • Stridor (harsh, high-pitched sound when breathing in)

4. Changes in Color or Behavior

  • Pale, bluish, or gray lips/skin
  • Increased sleepiness or difficulty waking
  • Irritability or decreased activity
  • Poor feeding (in infants)

5. When to Seek Immediate Care

Contact your pediatrician or care team if your child:

  • Is breathing faster or harder than usual.
  • Has retractions, wheezing, or noisy breathing.
  • Has a cough or cold that seems to be getting worse.
  • Has asthma symptoms that aren’t improving with usual treatment

Call 911 or go to the nearest emergency department right away if your child:

  • Severe breathing difficulty
  • Child unable to speak or cry normally
  • Blue lips or face
  • Grunting or stridor at rest
  • Retractions that are worsening
  • Any concern that the child is getting worse
  • Becomes very sleepy, confused, or unresponsive.

Trust your instincts — you know your child best. If something doesn’t seem right, call your pediatrician.

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About This Author

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Children’s Hospital of The King’s Daughters has been the region’s most trusted name in pediatric care for more than 50 years. As members of CHKD Health System, our pediatricians work closely with CHKD’s full range of pediatric specialists and surgeons. They also share a commitment to quality, excellence and family-centered care. With various locations throughout the region, a CHKD pediatrician is never far.

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